Monday, December 14, 2009

The Pearl Necklace of Life

Is anyone of you feeling too low about losing a very important part of your life? Anyone here is missing someone who you really loved and he/she is not with you right now? You need to know, I felt the same once upon a time, until my cousin had shared with me one of the cutest stories I’ve ever heard. That story has been so touching and played a very important role as a boost of confidence in my life. I know most of us go through this rough-phase once, twice, thrice and sometimes like a lot in life. But we all need this story that keeps us going. Which is also helping me to move-forth and on. I’m sharing it with all of you, who are skating on unhappiness. Just remember “Losing someone shouldn’t stop your life”. Here’s the story –

There was a 7 year old girl named Sheba, who lived with her parents in a small town. Sheba was sweet a girl with an apple cheeked face, with blue eyes and slight curls in her bronze colored hair. She one day happened to go for shopping with her mother to one of the biggest malls in the city. While her mother was busy shopping, Sheba admired everything that was in the store except for its prices. She felt like she was in heaven for a while, and kept smiling looking at the soft toys. She played with all the toys in the store. Then she found something really interesting. A pearl necklace. She told to herself not to get tempted but she was already tempted. She wanted that pearl necklace on all expenses. Sheba immediately turned to look at her mother and her mother was busy talking the store guy about the bill she had to pay. She ran her to mother and pulled her hand and pointed out at the pearl necklace. Sheba’s mother looked at it, saw the price and wasn’t amused. But she thought that this was not the age for Sheba to like such things and made up stories and told her that she couldn’t afford. Sheba was unhappy and was sad to hear that. She asked her “please mom, I love that necklace and I want to have it” and her mother couldn’t refuse but told her “I can buy this for you on a condition that 50% of your pocket money every month, will be deducted”. Sheba was ready and wasn’t bothered about her pocket money. All she knew was that she would soon own that wonderful pearl necklace she saw at the huge mall. She said “I’m okay with the condition”.

Sheba was so proud to wear the pearl necklace. She’d worn it every day, she shows it to her friends each time they came to visit her, she would stare at it for a long time, and she wore it to church every Sunday. She was totally in love with that pearl necklace she owned. And she never regretted about her pocket money being deducted. Days passed by when her dad dropped in at her room, and she shows the pearl necklace to him though it has become too old now. Her dad says “wow its awesome, can you give it to me?” Sheba was not ready to give it to him. She told her dad that she owns it and is also getting just half of her pocket money. Her dad tried to tell her he would give her double the pocket money she earned if she had given that necklace to him. Sheba didn’t like the deal. She never gave up. She was sure that no one can take that necklace from her. The next day again her dad asked Sheba to give that pearl necklace to him. Sheba gets really wild and walks away without replying. The third day her dad comes to her room and stretches forth his right arm and asks for the pearl necklace. Sheba gets really upset with how her dad was forcing her to give that pearl necklace to him. She puts the pearl necklace in the box and drops it in his hand, and looks down with a sad face, and her dad outstretches his left hand with a brand new diamond necklace which was more beautiful than the pearl necklace she owned. She was out of speech and was the happiest girl in the whole world.

I hope you understood something out of this story. This is what most of the times we face in life, the things we love always disappear in one snap. You keep crying over it, because you miss it. But most of us don’t realize that there is always something BEAUTIFUL coming up in our lives. Replace yourself with Sheba and replace Sheba’s dad with God. When you think God has taken away something from you, just believe that He’s preparing something really beautiful for you to have. Whatever you lost may come back to you as the most beautiful thing. Maybe it is not so easy to accept this fact, but trust me this story has changed my life, my thinking and my desires. It made me grow strong in faith and also I own something really beautiful right now – Happiness.

24 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm speechless. Totally and completely speechless. Thank you so much for sharing this with all of us :) We do need such morals to move on in life. I do have faith in god. I'm sure god has something lovely planned for all of us. All we need to do is let go of certain things and let god take care of everything. Love you sis >:D< This post made my day. I'm shebe right now stuck with that pearl necklace. I'll give up the necklace now :)

Vinutha N said...

A very pleasant read !
Well do read ma latest post on ma blog n temme what's yer take on it !
The article is called A BREED APART
http://mygoofyourgain.blogspot.com
Keep writing :)

Shaunak Mukherjee said...

It's so true. But it becomes so difficult to find that little bit of reserve in you to give up completely what you held closest to you. Expecting something to happen and Knowing something will happen are two completely different things. It's tough to "know" that there's something more beautiful coming for us. After all, we're all human, and know our mortality so well that we treasure everything that we hold dear for the short time that we have it.

Kudos to your cousin for this. :)

ghostrider said...

:)

Anonymous said...

wow...esty!1 I loved this..well i know the feeeling behind what u wrote here.WOnt comment much on that cauz i believe that silence conveys much more than a talk...:)

loved it thou!

h said...

:) :) me loves this

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Whia said...

this is a beautiful story esther :) I am sheba :( and it's been a year now that i am still holding on to this necklace.

i know it's not the greatest but it was my first necklace.i don't have it now,it's already owned by somebody else but i still keep reminiscing my moments with it...despite its imperfections, i still feel like nothing can ever take its place and even though I have a new one now and my friends admire it, whenever i think of my old one, i still feel crushed. But the weird thing is, whenever i see my old necklace fitting well on its new owner, i feel happy for it. ;/

and yes,i am not really talking about a literal necklace.

GlItTeR gUrL said...

nice story :-)

Unknown said...

To all those Sheba's in here. Remember that the one who gave her the diamond necklace was her DAD. Parents never think about doing anything bad for us.
This is life. It might even give you a necklace of titanium or a necklace of stone.

Unknown said...

Err. I meant platinum!

Freelancer said...

u woke me up :)

Hemish said...

wow.. this story gives so much of hope.. which everyone needs in one way or the other.. thanks for sharing!!

Meow said...

Very sweet story and true too :) I am waiting for my DIAMOND NECKLACE :)

Palazzo said...

Beautiful Blog,
congratulations...

Anonymous said...

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NesQuarX said...

Well, life's all about and letting go. And yeah, at the end of the road one never regrets letting the pearl necklace go...

Nice story.

Dhanya said...

I am glad you shared this story with us. I am all smiles now :) Happy for you too sweetheart! Stay happy always even long after this story has been forgotten.

ani_aset said...

aww this was sweet and carries such an important message :) loved it..you are awesome to understand this concept otherwise its very difficult for people to digest something like that

Aeish said...

This is so beautiful Esther..needed it :D

Anonymous said...

Like many people, I’ve been through dark and painful moments in my life as well.


Moments I wanted to skip, moments when what I really wanted the most is to have my own time machine so I can either go back where I was happy or fast forward anywhere in the future where I can find myself again.


But no machine like that has ever been invented yet, and the only way to move from the terrible place where I stand is to go through the dark tunnel ahead that will lead me towards the new beginning I’m looking forward to.


Many people may criticize me for this. But those who knew torment and have survived from it a better person understand the comfort of knowing someone is there listening to you, someone who understands you.


All those hurts you’re going through. Someone who doesn’t judge you or condemn you, just someone who loves you and trusts you. That if you will only hang in there a minute more, you shall surely make it through.


I had that someone in the form of God. He was with me all the time.
It may be quite ironic, but I have found my greatest joy in the arms of my God in my darkest hour.


I felt him hugging me, comforting me, crying with me. He didn’t just watch me. He didn’t scold me and reprimanded me to get up and be strong and stop being such a fool.


He cried with me.
He knew my pain and he claimed it as though it were His own.


There is a strength God gives in times when strength is no longer enough. However you may call Him, there is a Higher Power that will see you through.

I’ve received it. I’ve felt it coming just in time when I can no longer see how I’m going to carry on.

That is why we should never compare our strength with the weight of our problems. We’d probably make a wrong estimate doing that!


There is a strength that comes to you to help you overcome whatever you’re going through. Wait for it!
It will certainly come and will lift you to great heights :)

PULKIT said...

beautiful blog deary!
loved it

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