Have you ever been in a situation when you’re-?
Feeling a spasm of panic?
Feeling a never-ending numbness?
Dejected but yet try to look cheerful?
Waiting for a miraculous healing to your broken heart?
Damaged irreparably through the waves of hurt and wondering what to do?
Wanting to drink to drown your sorrows?
Deciding how to move on?
Waiting for life to begin?
Not realizing what’s the very best part of your life?
Waiting for someone to say “Come here give me a big hug?”
Moving effortlessly back into the agonizing memories?
Not able to move a step forward nor backward?
Trying to demolish every trace of something or someone?
This is your day, get over it. Your decision brings a change. No matter in what way the situation is positioned, it’s only you who can be responsible and deal with it. I really know why I posted this, on account of the fact that everyone goes through this phase once in a life time. Some of them don’t, they’re lucky. Honestly, I did go through a phase a lil similar to this, waited for wrong things in perpetuity and realized now what the very best part of my life is. So, whenever you decide for the best never regret it. Never miss the best things of your life. You just have to grasp the significance of it.
I just did it, and I’m free from all those very-very-heavy-burdens, I carried all this while on my shoulders. *Taking a sigh of relief*
“I see my worries flee
I feel carefree
In sorrows, I will never drown
Will always wear an invisible crown”
So, what is the very best thing of your life?
55 comments:
the very best thing in my life is my friends...coz i know no matter what i pass through or what i suffer, they would readily shield me from harm n wil be by my side even when i would want to kick their asses
one thing i always follow and i would tell you to do the same
with me, share your joys and i wil double it....and share your sorrows, i wil reduce it by half
My kids!
I believe this is a post for me. Something I just needed to read. I've gone through so many personal and interpersonal situations where I have not even realize what would be the best choices when I am in doubt. Sometimes I have to forget about others and think about me and go on with life. Thanks for writing this Esther.
"it’s only you who can be responsible and deal with it."
Spot on! It's up to people to create their own futures and figure out life for what it's worth. And mainly to live in the now! People are always worrying about what's next, when minutes are ticking by in the now.
Perhaps this is one most that I wanted to read... right now, am going through a lot of challenges... thousands of 'you should' and 'you should not' inside my head...
What you said is really true and practical Esther...
Your decision brings a change...It's only you who can be responsible and deal with it.
Thanks for this post Esther! I've got a lot of things straight inside my head now! :)
one post*
After reading this post of yours...I wrote something on my blog too... Do check it when you find time dearie! :)
Here's the link:
http://peaceencore.blogspot.com/2009/08/i-may-be-back.html
i am going thorugh this phase right now and my sometimes i feel as if my brain is going to explode any moment...frustated all the time i am trying to get myself out of this situation....blogging for example...whenever i see a comment on my post it brings a big smile on ky face...and when i read posts like this i realise i am not the only one to have gone through this...maybe u have given me a solution....thanx very much for this post esther...u r the best..:)
you know the first few points that u hve mentioned is wht which comprises my life....i am undergoing the same things....leading to no where.....i am in a state of confusion nd feels sick...the other day when my closed pal discussed few things with which really made me think....our life is something diff nd me nd my frnd go thru the same phase...i'm indeed waiting fr a miracle to happen for some reasons...never knew life was so difficult as we grw up.....feels like things have happened yday .... i just told him ...dnt u worry mate...our life would be a bliss at some point of time..nd the org will definitely call us one day....wonderful post mate. ..thank you for writing this :)
:)
Nicely written. Somehow reminded me of a very good book I'd once read - The monk who sold his ferrari.
N yeah..thnx for the surprise comment on my blog. :)
we just have to face it and move on... but yeah.. i have breathed a lot of those sighs :)
even this morning :)
FL Hey kiddo :P You know I feel the same, the very best part of my life is my family and my friends. No matter how rough I am at times with them and how difficult I am for most of them to understand, they stand with me all the time. Because they're the only few who can read my mind and understand my heart. And they are the only people who can love me with NO CONDITIONS!
I'll share my joys with you, and sorrows too :D Jhelo muje apni poori life :D
Mr. C That's sweet =)
Thanks for the visit.
Keep visiting
Kelvin Hi there, how have you been. Its been long since we spoke. Yeah, I've been through a lot things which broke me to death. I've have faced the most weird things in life. And most of the time I didn't bother to realize what I truly wanted and what I truly deserve. Waited for someone to help me out, give me choices. I didn't know there was power in my own decisions and today I realized what's the best the part of my life. Never regret any decisions you make, but always remember to make the right one's! You are right, think about you and move on. This life is meant to be yours. =) I really wanted to convey that live life with no regrets, wipe away everything that's blocking your happiness.
Stay happy =) Talk to you soon.
Archana "Live now" I'm with you on this. Most of them don't understand the fact of living the moment. I was also the same until yesterday, living in "YESTERDAY" fearing about "TOMORROW" and ignoring "TODAY" but right now, I know the value of something called "NOW". Life seems a lot more easier to me now, after those struggles and pain. Maybe I may go through it again, but I know how to handle it. I know the very best part of my life =)
Archana I want to thank you for all those encouraging words almost in everything I write, it means a lot to me! =) Keep smiling always.
xoxo
Aarthi I've been through all that I've mentioned in this post. Its right from my experiences. I did face a lot of challenges like "You Should" and "You should not" but I only had to realize "WHAT I should" and "WHAT I should not" That made the biggest difference in my life. It will make a difference in yours too, just realize "WHAT YOU WANT". I'm glad this post has connected to your feelings. I hope whatever the worst you are facing may fade away soon and may all the happiness reign on you! =)
I'm gonna check your post now. Hey keep smiling always =)
Kaka I did feel the same that my head would explode, I did feel that I probably would die the very next moment! When you really thing about the worst situation you are in, you are frustrated to get out if it and just get rid of it. It happened with me. All you gotta do, is know what the very best part of your life is. =) I feel great that this post has helped you in some way or the other.
Keep smiling always =)
TSW Indeed life is so complicated as we age. I have kept fighting on pure spunk. I never had a solution for all that was on my mind. Sometimes there were just questions and no answers. I felt lonely at times, felt like just staying at home all day without speaking to anyone. I sometimes thought that I was jinxed, but later realized a few of my friends going through the same phase. I did wonder why we need to go through something called "PAIN" in life. But I realized, everything happens is for good =) I'm sure everything will be a bliss as days pass by. And for every suffering we've been through, will be rewarded soon.
Keep smiling =)
Intutius Hey there, thanks for visiting. Its a very nice book indeed and yes live is all about living fully and developing the courage! =) Thank you again.
Arv Yes this is a part of life. It sometimes is really difficult to get rid of certain things, but yet wanna remind its not IMPOSSIBLE!
I hope you enjoy the very best in your life.
Keep smiling mate =)
Beautiful post!! :)
And perfectly true!! You decide what you make of your life!! And today is the best time to let go of the burdening weights and start afresh to go ahead and conquer the world! :)
Thats a sweet post esther.
I once had a t-shirt which read
"when was the last time you rewarded yourself?
Now its time!!"
The start of this year was the best so far for me..That was the day i decided that i am going to start doing things i always wanted to do..
I enrolled for salsa and ballroom dancing..and picked up the guitar again after 2 long years to start learning that too again :D
And trust me i have never been more happy :)
Cheers
yes ! I hv been in such a demoralizing state a lot of times in the recent years ...but then got quickly troubleshoots it :)
i blame all that on PMS...yeah yeah i kno i cant have it...ok so wud dementors do??
best thing that i have...hmmm words!!
Yup, been there done that! :)
Yup, been there done that! :)
That was very very sweet, Esther. I'm sure you brightened up a couple of people's day :D
That was very very sweet, Esther. I'm sure you brightened up a couple of people's day :D
I love this post.....i really do! As i went through all ur questions i was like o shit i have been through all of them once in my life! You say ppl who never go through them are lucky....i say who don't( even though i dont want neone thru it) will never grow up....as pains are what experiences are made of....and they are what make us the strong person we r......i know how difficult it is to move on......i know how harsh it is.......i know how it took me a year to finally not call someone i have been used to calling back always.....i know how bad i felt in being selfish....but then i had to drown it off for me to rise....
Love this post
Thanks a ton girl
WOW! Just reading that made me feel better! :)
The best thing in my life would have to be my friends and loved ones! :)
Ishwarya I truly agree with you. And I feel I'm more than a conqueror! =) Thank you so much for the comment.
ani_aset "when was the last time you rewarded yourself?
Now its time!!" OMG it makes total sense. I just refreshed my memory, trying to think when was the last I ever rewarded. And I wish I had a T-shirt as such. I like T's with huge prints, especially quotes! =) And yeah it is always a nice way to do things that you're happy doing. It gives hell lotta joy I know! =) And you did learn salsa? Wow, I learnt salsa before I completed my graduation. I do practice it now and then, because of the free time I have. Awesome and you did learn guitar too. That's perfect =)
Thanks for the comment and keep smiling always! =)
Peter I took a lotta time for me to realize what I truly wanted. But maybe not too long. When things are getting out of hand badly and when I realized that maybe its just because of me being so stupidly sensitive that things are getting worse. Now I'm living the moment. Thanks for dropping by.
Keep smiling! =)
Mayz Hey, how are you? =P I'll fill the blank, best thing that i have ever read, hats off, mind blowing, awesome, super, WOW, more words please! =D
he he keep smiling! =)
Dhanya Aw, :( *Hugs* But I'm glad you've done it. Keep smiling =)
Angie Thanks so much girl. I really hope that somewhere some one is putting this in practice, that's gonna make me even happier! =) Keep smiling =)
Mysterious gal Hi, its so true that if people don't go through all this will never grow up. And I totally agree we learn out of our mistakes and we also learn many things out of the pain which buries all the happiness. Right now I feel I'm a strong person. I feel even if I wanna cry, I just laugh. We really have to drown our sorrows than drowning oneself in sorrow! I'm with you =)
Keep smiling always and thank you for sharing your experiences and the words of encouragement. =)
Siras I'm glad that this post made you feel better. I just realized that my loved ones and friends are the only one's who would love me unconditionally. Thank you and Keep visiting =)
hey.. off the 13 questions there.. I've been in some seven situations.. identifiable.. and I completely agree to what you suggest.. regretting a decision just doesn't make sense..
good one.. :)
i guess we all go thru these situations at some point of time... but it is the way we take it tat matters.... things bother u only till u allow them to....
and i always believe the worst brings out the best in you... life s best lessons are learnt thru pain.. u realise value of people around u... people who love u unconditionally and for what u truly are!
am being loved...
am being cared....
am being blessed!
and i guess tat is the best thing tat has ever happened to me...
cheers!
Megha
My mom..
P.s. Great blog :)
hey hello there
good morning
something for u on my blog :)
do check it
Esther,
This is for you to know that I did try out what you said. I tried setting up my priorities straight and lo! It worked!
I am perfectly alright now... your prayers have been answered! :)
Something that was bothering me has now died down! Me and my friend sorted out everything! :)
Esther :) Nice post :) Ah... Hugs from me :) Best thing in my life... my cousin.. I am here with so much of confidence because of him :)
Well bingo...friends for me too...:) i have gone thru the same thing, seen u going thru the same thing but ur post is sure to bring a ray of hope to everyone readin it!!!
Shaik Hi how are you? well yes you got it right, regretting any RIGHT decision you make doesn't make sense at all. Thank you and keep smiling.
Megha hey there....
am being loved...
am being cared....
am being blessed!
So true. I kept confessing that time and again.... and I feel warm now. I feel relaxed too. I truly believe that the worst brings the best out of you, just have to realize that. Thank you, keep smiling!
Jal Pari Bingo! Its the same with me. She's the best part of my life. Thanks for dropping by!
Keep smiling.
TSW OMMMMGGGGG!!! Thank you so so so much for the award!! =) *crying tears of joy* he he he! YAY!!!!! =P
I'll put that up right away , keep smiling! =P
Aarthi WOW! That's a good news to my ears! =) I'm soooooooooooo happy for you lovely! =) And Thank God for answering my prayers. Keep smiling alwayssss =) =)
Sowmi *Hugs back* =) You know I started thinking who was the best cousin in my family hehe =D I found all of them best! =) But yes having one person who could be a best part of your life is so so good =) Thank you and keep smiling!
Madz I do hope the same. I hope this post brings change in not only one life, but many! =) Thanks for being there always.
Lots of love
You're always welcome sweets. :) Btw, you have a little something to pick up at my blog! <3
best thing that i have ever read, hats off, mind blowing, awesome, super, WOW!!! :D :D
Archana OMG really? I'm gonna check it out! =P =P *All excited* :P
Mayz he he he he =P =P I'm guessing I filled it up right! =P
Nice one..
Yeah, similar feelings cross our lives now and then in all our lives..'
But I juz' loved this post.. Felt easy reading this one..
Chill babe, you are a rocker so keep rocking!!!
Keep writing too.. ;)
Nice.. :)
Yoga,meditation,pranic healing..all for the buffs..Trust me,U have enormous control over self.I am going through one such phase.. :)
Take care.. :)
Nikhil
My very best thing is, being here...;)
good points here esther... inspiring!
however, i wish everything is that easy... things are really different and seems complicated. but hey, we have no choice but to move forward...
great blog!
Funny, how I bumped into your space and am going through something similar for the past few days. I've been through it all and I don't have answers to a few questions. Wish there was someone who could make it a bit easy for me or keep it rolling for me.
I know how you feel.
It's not easy to let go and move on but the ''forgive and forget'' rule helps at times. I hope you get over this and open up the morning page :)
And hey! Take me with you, girl!
Do u want to read a post in Hyderabadi Hindi :P ?
www.peter-blogvibes.blogspot.com/
:) u kno how 2 make a day u kno. thats very well written and so true.
You're right. Everyone goes through it - but more than once in a lifetime, I'm afraid...
And they are a burden. It's a wonderful feeling to be free from worry and anxiety :)
Iyshwarya sent me this link and had called it "inspirational"! I completely agree with her. Whenever I feel that neither forward nor back situation I tend to get a message which reinstates my credence in moving on! :)
Thanks again! :)
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